Kristan hinted that being a matchmaker is probably not the best idea for me, so I thought, giving advice is not off limits. And I really wanted to get some things off my chest.  I probably should have gotten a second opinion from O, but take these from a girl’s perspective.

Guy #1: I think you could use the most advice.  Next time you see someone you like, make her feel special. Compliment sincerely! When you dance, make her feel welcome. Do not stare blankly or annoyingly. Most of all be warm. WARM.

Guy #2: Quality, quality, quality. Your mind seems to be wrapped around the idea of having someone, but not really truly liking someone.  If you really want a girlfriend, quantity will not get you there. Quality relationships, my friend.

Guy #3: If you’re too much of a flirt, it comes off wrong and insincere. You’ve got the social aspect working for you, so when you find that one, tune into her. Do not spread too much love around, you’re selling yourself short.

Guy #4: Pick up the damn phone. Make an effort, especially with second chances.

Guy #5: Hombre, truthfully, you are probably the only one I think has it together. You just need to wait for the right girl to come along. Granted, as shallow as this sounds, when you go out, sprucing up never hurts in impressing. Then you can work the charm afterwards.

Guy #6: Aren’t you a sweetheart? But you’re so meek. Make your voice heard. It’s okay to be assertive sometimes. You’re a nice guy, so fight for what’s yours.